what a pity, Kamilo is´n here...
I asked my husband and he says, there are reasons for the family situation where the father cannot earn enough money for his children. Maybe he is ill and cannot work. Probably he is not just doing nothing because he is lazy. And let his son just work for everybody´s living costs.
In my opinion they are people who believe, everybody what U get, God gave to U. They do not (want) see the simple thing: cause - effect or action - reaction. They have so many children not because they have not used contraceptive. They have many children because God has given them. And God has given them also a smart and hard working son, so everything is ok! Very simple thinking. And very common. This is actually already become to the mentality of whole moslem nations I think.
If U have money, and the others don´t, why don´t You share?
This is not fair to this 24yo man who is working for at least 10 people... we say in Poland ... like a horse, but he agree with this situation. Maybe it could work to speak with him about starting his own family. This shall attract his thoughts more on his person.
Or better - his own future.
And one thing more, that I don´t accept: the girls in the family maybe finish successfully their studies, but that´s all. They should stay by their family, get married in a short time and that´s all about their future. They´ll need their degree to better help their children at school. Stay at home and men has to earn money. (We know very well, how some men earn money. Just born talents.) I really don´t like it and I think many moslem woman even dont realize this fact.